If you’re an introvert, at some point you’ve probably encountered someone who wanted to “fix” you. Maybe they put a lot of pressure on you to get out, talk more, or something similar.
They may have meant well, but trying to change an introvert doesn’t help anyone. This is just how we are, and we’re happier and more successful when we honor that part of ourselves instead of trying to change it.
Extroverts have their strengths but so do introverts! And what’s more, introverts are actually pretty awesome.
So today, we’re going to look at 8 reasons why introverts are awesome (and why they absolutely don’t need to be changed or “fixed).
Introverts are great at making meaningful connections
Introverts may not love a big party or have a massive network of friends, but they’re great at making meaningful connections with people.
For most introverts, small talk is such a painful superficial process. If an introvert is going to have a conversation, most of those conversations are going to dig deep. (They pretty much have to in order for us to stick around.)
An introvert’s social and/or professional circle may be small. But the relationships we have tend to be built on strong, solid foundations that benefit both parties in the long term.
Introverts make great leaders
Because meaningful connections are typically important to introverts, we tend to make it a point to really get to know the people we’re leading as much as possible.
And even if we can’t get to everyone, we often at least have a good understanding of everyone’s strengths, weaknesses, and abilities.
As a result, introverts are good at understanding who is the best person to handle a given task.
Additionally, a personal theory I have is that because introverts are less inclined to jump into the spotlight, we can be more focused on being effective, and can hand out credit fairly.
This can be great for overall production and morale.
Introverts tend to be good listeners
Most introverts would rather listen than speak. As a result, we can be pretty incredible listeners.
If you have a problem to work out, or just need to vent, introverts typically LOVE to be there for you in this way. Just be real with us, and be willing to return the favor. (We need to be heard too!)
Introverts tend to be deep thinkers
Introverts may not have much to say all the time, but that doesn’t mean there’s not a lot going on in their heads.
In fact, often times we find what’s going on internally to be more interesting than what’s going on in the real world. And while sometimes, this can be an issue, it also has its advantages.
If you want someone to really dig deep on a problem, or offer a fresh and unique perspective, an introvert is a good person to turn to.
We think about a lot so we may already have a new take on something you’re dealing with. And if we don’t, these are often some of our favorite conversations to have.
Introverts can be pretty observant
Just because we’re not saying much doesn’t mean we’re always lost in our heads.
A lot of times, we’re taking in more than most people realize, and we often have some pretty interesting insights to offer.
There are definite advantages to “getting involved” in an extroverted sense. But being able to sit back and notice things before you dive in can be a bit of an introvert superpower.
Introverts can create some pretty cozy homes
Introverts truly love their homes. As a result, we’re often pretty into making them as cozy and inviting as possible.
For us, our homes are our sanctuaries. They’re our escape from a chaotic, extroverted world. We like them to be cozy and comfortable, both for ourselves and our (small number of) guests.
This is a skill that’s pretty awesome for the introvert, but extroverts can also greatly enjoy an introvert home.
It’s not that an extrovert can’t make a cozy home. But in my experience, most extroverts would rather spend their money out, while most introverts are more willing to splurge on their house.
For tips on creating an introvert sanctuary, check out this post.
Introverts excel at low-key fun
Even the most extroverted among us can use a low-key night. And low-key nights are where introverts shine!
If you’re looking for a chill dinner party or even an outing to a calm environment, introverts can hook you up!
We’re pretty good at creating fun, interesting low-key events and activities. (We’ve been doing it our whole lives.)
Introverts tend to be a lot more than meets the eye
Because introverts are quieter, we often get overlooked and underestimated.
A lot of people think introverts are shy, and while some can be, introversion and shyness are two different things.
As a result, others can get pretty shocked when an introvert gets assertive or stands up for themselves or something they believe in.
There’s also a lot more going on in the inner world of an introvert than most realize. Tons of creative and inventive geniuses are introverts.
If you ask me, it can be pretty awesome to be able to come up with the things we can come up with and to then surprise people when we share them.
Looking for more tips on how to manage your introverted life?
If you want more tips and tricks on how to manage your introvert life and build plenty of healthy introvert habits, check out the Introvert Life Guide!
This guide was designed to help you build the introvert life of your dreams. And it’s full of plenty of tips, tricks, and ideas to help you create an introvert life that’s uniquely yours!
It will also help you embrace your introverted nature and build a life to help you thrive!
For more introvert life tips, check out the other introvert posts!
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